Former EastEnders actress Simone Lahbib is spreading a message of cherishing every moment following the loss of her brother to cancer. The 60-year-old Scottish star, known for her roles in Bad Girls, Eastenders, and Wire in the Blood, tragically lost her brother Stephen just six months after receiving a terminal diagnosis.
Stephen was given a prognosis of two years in May 2024 and passed away at Strathcarron Hospice in November of the same year. Simone has bravely chosen to share her journey with end-of-life care in support of Strathcarron Hospice’s 2026 Campaign ‘What Makes Life Meaningful’ as the hospice marks its 45th anniversary.
She disclosed that initially, her parents, both in their 80s, were Stephen’s primary caregivers. However, as his condition deteriorated, they turned to Strathcarron for assistance. The hospice staff provided daily support, including help with daily tasks and were readily available for emergencies, as reported by the Daily Record.
Expressing her gratitude, Simone praised Strathcarron’s Hospice at Home team for their invaluable support during Stephen’s final days. She described the staff as compassionate and understanding, providing much-needed assistance during a challenging and distressing period for the family.
Simone shared that in Stephen’s last weeks, he was determined to make the most of his time, especially focusing on completing songs for his band Mama Mayhem’s album with bandmate John Drummond. The album, ‘Hangman,’ was released on Spotify shortly after Stephen’s passing, with vinyl copies produced. Simone emphasized that Stephen’s passion for music and his love for family and friends were paramount in his life.
Reflecting on the impact of Stephen’s passing, Simone highlighted the importance of treasuring the moments spent with loved ones. She emphasized the fragility and preciousness of life, echoing Stephen’s belief in making every moment count and the enduring legacy of his music.
Research conducted by Strathcarron as part of its campaign revealed that Scots value time, relationships, and compassion over wealth and achievements when considering life’s meaning. The study showed that family and close relationships are seen as providing the greatest sense of purpose, surpassing personal accomplishments.
Mags McCarthy, Chief Executive of Strathcarron Hospice, noted that the research findings resonate with the hospice’s mission of fostering meaningful connections and finding joy in life’s simple pleasures. She highlighted the vital role hospices play in delivering palliative care, supporting families, and alleviating pressure on NHS services.